Wild at Heart

My wife (who has never written a single blog BTW) complained that I started a couple entries with the word "so"…so I won’t be doing that this time. 🙂

I’ve been reading with a group of men from my neighborhood called Wild at Heart by John Eldredge. Its a book about the masculine heart and how many of us have lost ours through the warfare within our lives, with our friends, our enemies, brothers, sisters, mothers and fathers. Its a great toolkit for building a better understanding of the attack our hearts are under, and how we can fight to get our hearts back. Once we do that it gives us tips and tools to fight for the hearts of our spouses, children and others.

I know it sounds a bit out there (and I think that the author uses biblical references more as spice than the meat) I have to say that many of the men in our group, including myself, have taken the essence of the book to heart and are working to see what positive effect it can have in our lives. And in my mind that is all this book should aspire to, motivating men to take action rather than live in fear and self doubt from the wounds of their past.

During our exploration of the book, we have been meeting weekly with an awesome guide, Michael Thompson from Priority Associates. His leadership, experience and sharing have been inspiring and have driven many of us to begin planning to take action on what we have learned…a tough thing when your talking about a bunch of guys with wives, kids and way too little free time.

Another sign that his leadership must be working within a lot of us is that this group of about 15 men has been spreading the word about the reading and learning we are doing, and there has been a lot of interest from others in the area. Both in running through this book again and/or developing other men’s gatherings…beyond the "golf tournament" and "YoYo bar trips", and with a deeper focus on our spirituality and relationships with God and our families.

Recently we set up a meeting to share what we had learned with others and discuss our next steps. We had about 40 new people attend with about 75% filling out cards saying they wanted to join a platoon such as ours. Pretty impressive response rate for you marketing types out there.

FInally, as I went through the class I spoke with Cheryl about the insight I was gaining and the direction it was taking me. It must have had some impact as she just signed up for a study group on the new women’s version of the book called Captivating, by John and his wife Staci. This book just came out a couple weeks ago and the class is being led by Michael’s wife. Even after the first two classes for Cheryl, I think the books have given us a basis for discussions we have never had before and opened us up to more.

As we move into the last chapter of the book and the next in our lives, we’ll see how much impact it can have on our group. I’ll keep you informed and hopefully we’ll see some great changes take shape.


A day at the circus

Last Friday we attended the circus at Mark’s Binkley Preschool. We all had a great time, except for Mom who got elephant poop dumped on her by a monkey! Aside from that little problem we enjoyed all of the acts. I spent a little time this weekend pulling together some of the highlights for you take a look at in the media gallery .


One of the coolest gifts I’ve ever given

OK…so I’ve been thinking about how I can get photos to people. Most of the time I send them via email as we don’t print too many anymore. The problem with that is that I either clog up people’s email with a bunch of new pictures or for those who don’t have email, They rarely get new pictures.

So the other day while my Dad was here I was remembering a gadget I saw on the net a while back that sounded pretty cool. We talked about how interesting it sounded and I checked it out. Man is it ever cool. My Dad talked me into calling my brother and telling him about it. We just had to get one for my Grandma.

What is it? Its basically an modem enabled digital picture frame from Ceiva.

OK…so maybe it doesn’t sound that cool…but it really is.  

I ordered one online and had it shipped to my house so I could check it out. While I waited I signed up for an online account on their site, gave them my grandma’s local phone number to get a dial in number for the device, got an email address from them and emailed some picts of the kids right from iPhoto via the Mail option (they have PC software if you are not on a Mac). I was ready for delivery. The only thing I had to do when the device arrived was link it to my online account. To do that I had to type in the serial number from the bottom of the unit so they know where to send the photos. It was a bit interesting as I was giving this as a gift and so, if I had just sent it directly to my grandma, she would have either been internet savvy or I would have had to have here give me the serial number off the bottom. I was glad I had it shipped to me first.

I logged onto the Ceiva site before it came and investigated the features there. I could set a ton of information about the device like what was playing on my device, how long each photo would show and when the device would turn on and off during the day. I was even able to sigh up for what Ceiva calls channels, slides that you can subscribe to like sports, news and even history. I signed her up for the weather channel slide so one of the 30 slides the device holds. It asked me for her zip code so the forecast would be her local 3-day outlook. Very nice addition.

I couldn’t wait to see how cool it would be. The site said only 3 simple steps once unboxed the device. 1. plug in the power cord. 2. plug it into a phone line. 3. Press the big white button on the back.

When it arrived I tore it open and set it up.  The 3 simple steps were a just as described. I pushed the big white button (step three) and the device came to life and called home. It took about 5-10 minutes the first time it called home and downloaded the pictures I had sent. After it was done the screen scrambled for a few seconds (a bit unnerving) and then it went black. A second later it came to life and started cycling through my photos. I couldn’t wait to send it to my Grandma. I watched and watched. The kids came and thought it was exciting to see the photos (a couple of which we had just taken) on the screen.

Speaking of the screen its a 640 x 480 and the quality is decent but not perfect. The screen is bright but the viewing angle is a bit limited. The frame around the screen has a nice black matte and comes with both a stylish black frame and a hightech silver. We bought my Grandma an additional oak frame and it looked very nice. You can also buy different mattes but we though the black was perfect.

After playing with emailing photos to the device for a few days to ensure that when it was set to call home every night, it did and downloaded pictures from my brother and me. I also showed it to some friends to get their opinions and they all thought it was cool too.

I packed it up and shipped it to my Grandma last week. She got it yesterday and set it up. She understood what to do and thought it would be very easy. One problem is that the placement of the power and phone cords made it difficult for her to get them plugged in so she had her neighbor help her. She loved looking at the pictures of the kids and the fact that more will be coming in tomorrow.

If you want to know more or think about getting one of these let me know. I can refer you and get you $50 off the receiver.


Pros: innovative and easy technology

Cons: ongoing monthly cost to send picts, location of buttons, display quality, ease of giving as a gift

Mason’s Birthday Extravaganza

Mason had a birthday party complete with ice cream sundaes at school with his friend Olivia (who also has a birthday in April). After I got home from work we picked up Mason’s friend Cassie and headed out for a night on the town, hitting Fuddruckers and Chuck E. Cheese for some food and fun. Then it was back home for ice cream cake and some presents.

We’re tired just thinking about all of the fun and excitement.

You can check out some of the photos in the media gallery.


Matthew’s 3rd Birthday

Matthew wanted to go to Chuck E. Cheese’s for his birthday, which kicks off a month in which we have 3 birthdays in 4 weeks. We had a good time and you can check out the photos in the media gallery.

But while we’re on the subject of Chuck E. Cheese, I have to rant a bit…

I have to say that Chuck E. Cheese is not what it used to be when I was a kid. While they still have the animatronic stage show, games, play area and pizza, its all pretty lame in comparison to the late 70’s.

Back then it was mostly an arcade with food, with emphasis on the arcade. The place was dark and there were dozens and dozens of games everywhere. I loved playing football , asteroids and of course space invaders . At one I went to when I was probably 7, there was even a mini ferris wheel you could ride on.

In comparison, today’s Chuck E. Cheese is bright and cheery (okay…that might a bit better when I’m trying to track down my kids) and there are only about 15 games to play. Most of them for very small children. I think that their target market has dropped from teen and tweenagers, down to 2-9 and that has driven the shift in what games they have.

Its a bummer because I think a few better games would keep adults there a bit longer with their kids and drive more token/pizza sales. But then again, once you’ve had the pizza maybe not. I wish cardboard came to mind as that would have been better. Maybe its always been like that and if it has, thank you Dad for suffering through it for me! I’m definitely going to try and talk Mason out of it if he wants to go to Chuck E. Cheese for his birthday


Posted: Wed – April 13, 2005 at 11:07 AM

Dino Dance

Once upon a time, the dinosaurs were doing tap dancing.
Some of the dinosaurs got pinched on the trees.
A blue Stegosaurus came to help them off the trees.

He gave each one a Band-Aid? and then they all started to dance again.

-Mark Doerr

New Site Design for www.hartlandchurch.com

While my Dad was here I talked him into buying a domain for his church. I spoke with my good friend Gobie over at Kolusu Networks in Toronto and he hooked us up, hosting our DNS and the website. If you need a great host check him out. Mention me and he might give you a good deal…or a swift kick in the pants. 🙂

I then set my Dad loose with iBlog and helped him setup and design his site. Now he has a great looking site that is simple to maintain. If you have a Mac with OS X, it doesn’t get any easier.

Check it out and let us know what you thought.


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